*Once you establish anything truly intimate with another person, even talking, it has to affect the person you're supposed to be the most intimate with.

*There's a history here, and histories don't happen overnight.

*Haven't we hit the essential paradox? Give and take, push and pull, the yen the yang. The best of times, the worst of times!

*I think the loudest silences are the ones filled with everything that's been said. Said wrong, said 300 times. Until fighting becomes the condition rather than the exception. And your only option is a silent retreat to mutual corners.

*-I am thinking of 7 words what are they?
-Do i get a hint? a category?
-No
-They can be any 7 words??? And they lived happliy everafter?
-Six words but very close
-And they lived mostly happily everafter?
-I hope so
-I think so
-You think so?
-I do
-I do... too

*I did my paper on Harold and the Purple Crayon...It's small book, about a little boy who draws the world the way he wants it to be with his magic crayon. And I, I, Just love that book because it was about everything that I wasn't.

But the problem in a marriage, is that if one person is always Harold, drawing the world the way they want it to be, then the other person has no choice but to draw the it the way it is. Which is probably why they never wrote a book about Harold's wife.

*Let hard times bring you together, no one said it would be easy!

*and believe me there is no greater feeling than being gotten

*I've always had a thing for happy endings; I don't know why. You know the movies where the couple falls in love, gets married, has kids, then fifty or sixty years later, one of them dies, and two or three days later the other one dies. Okay, so that's not a great example of a happy ending. I mean two people are dead. But, for some reason I thought Katie and I would be that couple. Not that we would be dead, I mean, but that we would go on forever.

*Isn't this the moment where one of us is supposed to say: Look, this is ridiculous, we love each other, all couples go through this, let's give it another try.

*Everything that's important in the world is in this bed right now…

*God your a good friend and good friends are hard to find.